loved my university experience and I am thankful for the opportunity because I
know not everyone gets to go. I had a lot of fun, I did my school work but
unfortunately, I spent too much time socialising. In uni I only did what was
expected of me. I didn’t push myself academically to perform to the best of my
ability and that is one of my biggest regrets. If I could speak to my first-year
self, I would say yes going out is fun but applying yourself is true satisfaction.
all heard the ‘don’t forget you are there for a degree’ phrase, and I didn’t.
But what I did lose sight of was that there is so much more to university than
just an undergraduate degree. I’m not disappointed in myself, I did graduate
within the 3 years after all. But I am not comfortable with the mediocrity of
my performance. So please don’t be like me, strive for excellence. Go the extra
Participate in campus organisations like debating or Model UN, do some volunteering (Now, I wasn’t completely selfish, I did some volunteering but it was compulsory to get a credit for a subject so I can’t really say it was out of the good of my own heart but I did connect with those precious children), consider tutoring, trust me, you don’t want to come out varsity with your CV looking bleak. The reality is South Africa is currently facing the problem of youth unemployment, and so I suggest you do activities that you love and enjoy but will set you apart from other graduates.
Don’t rest on your laurels as you are capable of greatness. You are not only there for yourself, but you are also there for society. South Africa deserves young leaders that are passionate and determined. I don’t care how smart you think you are, go to class, all of them that is what you are paying for after all. Use the library more often! It’s a privilege to be in a centre of knowledge. Do your daily homework, going to class isn’t enough, do your readings. Cultivate a sense of self-discipline. Take it from me you will be happier for it.
cherish my university experience, I really enjoyed myself. But when it comes to
happiness, remember there is short-term excitement and there is long-term
fulfilment. Definitively, have your fun. But developing a healthy work ethic is
an essential part of #BossingUp. And please, don’t worry about me I have
learned from my mistakes. I am determined to wear my gown a couple of more
This article is
dedicated to those who are returning students, and have a desire to improve
their ways. These ways could be academically, physically, mentally and just
ones overall health. But of course we can all learn from this, even ‘freshers’
or first year students.
experience is by far one of the most challenging and tiresome, as returning
students we can all detest to this. I think the most challenging aspect about
it is trying to find the balance between everything. You obviously want to do
well at school, perhaps you’ve already had these visions about your academic
success, and you already know what you have to do in order to achieve your
ultimate academic goal. But reality doesn’t always unfold the way we plan it,
and this can be frustrating. Well, it is for me. It doesn’t unfold the way we
planned for it because we constantly have to remember that we are more than
just our academic journey. Perhaps if we wanted to be highly successful beings
we’d have to have a plan for our mental health and activity, our spiritual
journey as well as our physical health… oh let’s not forget balancing our
social life. Oh god how do people do it? How? Please share?
What I’ve learnt
from those who are ahead in life than I am is how imperative it is to be
organized and the best way to be organized is to possess a diary, and start
scheduling. Yes, schedule. Become that girl ‘Oh, I would have to check my
schedule/diary and get back to you’ it’s 100% okay. I don’t know why we think
that we can remember everything that has to be done, the cool thing about a
diary or schedule is that you don’t have to actively remember everything, as
soon as you know that something has to be ticked off from your to-do list, instantly
write it down and your diary will remember it for you. All you have to do now
is be disciplined enough to do what you have scheduled to do when you have
scheduled to have it done.
Yes, our biggest
friend and enemy at the same time has to be unfriended and unfollowed,
PROCRASTINATION. Procrastination is the enemy of progress. Why do we
procrastinate? It has been found that one of the biggest reasons humans
procrastinate is because the workload seems unmanageable, therefore we opt to
do something that does not require as much effort, like watching a series, even
if we binge watch, it still does not require that much effort. How can we
resolve this? Once, a woman I value to be considerably wise told me that ‘you
shouldn’t think that everything has to be done all at once, that is utterly
impossible, and that is when you will feel overwhelmed, and the result of that
is that you will get nothing done. What you should do instead, is make sure
that you do one thing at a time, and no day should pass without you haven’t
done anything, even if it’s just one thing.’ What you choose to have done will
be what you consider to be the most important things to do on your list. You
can judge that according to time, like which is more urgent than the other.
Once you have
mastered your academic organization and scheduling readings, writing down
lecture notes in your own words, that assignment, and that test you will be
able to find time to schedule other things that add value to your well-being,
like socializing. Socializing is just as important as doing well at school, the
only difference is applied energy, and that is why some people get carried away
with this. It seems so much easier to just hang out with friends than it does
doing anything involving schoolwork. But this is where your priorities are
questioned, which is more important and which is more rewarding? How about
going out as a reward, and it doesn’t have to be something big all the time,
even if you have completed something minor. For example, ‘okay I’ve completed
all the readings I intended to have done and made notes, sure I can meet with
my girl for a movie now’. Socializing doesn’t always have to be big and loud
either, dinner is a sufficient way to get your mind off many other things.
cannot distress this enough, physical exercise is just beneficial in all ways
possible. You gain a feeling of happiness; this is due to a change in hormones.
Side note: the minute you sense yourself slipping into a
depressive state just head to the gym or for a walk, put your headphones on and
break a sweat.
This extra blood
flow and release of serotonin (hormone responsible for happiness and
satisfaction) will improve your current mental state. Exercising adds agility
and motivation in many aspects than just the physical, which is very useful
when one wishes to complete anything.
There are some things that we are unaware of
that we may have to schedule in but are important to our perseverance and
ultimate survival, such a thing is your spirituality, it is your grounding
element. Whether religious or simply spiritual it is important to have constant
retreats where you tend to nothing else but you and your spiritual journey.
This is where the source of your doings lie. This is where your journey begins
and is where your journey on this earth ends. Therefore, maintaining a healthy
relationship with your spiritual self is crucial to your success as a person.
Like I mentioned
before the most challenging aspect about all of these is about finding the
balance. But as I’ve listed, once you find your academic balance the rest can
follow, in no particular order too, it depends on which you find the most
mandatory, but all are equally important. Once there is a sense of organization
and you find that you can manage your time better, then there is noting that
can stand in your way, you could even get a part-time job, take on more
responsibility but you shouldn’t reach a stage where you’re choking. Create a
Amongst other things, the aim of going to
study in a tertiary institution is to get that paper. The one that certifies
that you are knowledgeable in whatever course you’ve enrolled for. But what happens
when 300 students receive that same diploma/degree that you have and graduate
along with you? Now that is just considering the students in your college or
university. Let’s take that number and multiply it by the number of
institutions which offer the same course you just graduated in. I don’t know
what the exact figure is, but I do know that it is a lot.
How do you then set yourself apart from the
other thousands of students who’ve got the same qualification as you? How do
you make sure that your CV stands out and recruiters see you amongst all those
who’ve got the same skills as you?
These are the two main questions I think
you need to keep in mind while studying. Yes, the immediate need is to submit
assignments on time and pass semester tests and exams. But what happens after
all of that? According to Stats SA 430 000 people were unemployed in 2017
and 7.3% were graduates. This number of unemployed graduates is horrifying to
be honest and begs the question of whether a tertiary qualification is necessary.
That, however needs an entire article dedicated to it.
The simplest answer to these questions is
this; you need to get involved in things than can assist you to develop your
career outside of the formal structures of learning. Do not confine yourself to
only learning in lecture halls, find learning and development opportunities
separate outside of that. Tertiary institutions are actually structured in aa
manner which is conducive to this learning and development. Campus itself is a
community of various industries which can assist you in building yourself for
Working on campus is a viable option to
consider while you’re studying towards getting that paper. Campus radio and
newspaper are great starting points for aspiring broadcasters. Do not despise
small beginnings because you do not know what they can lead to. A Girl Boss
like Hilisani Ravele’s campus radio experience has been a contributing factor
to the success of her career. She has co-hosted shows on Power FM and 94.7 to
name a few. Even if you do not become a broadcaster, being on radio or writing
for the newspaper will develop your communication skills and give you
Here’s a brief list of other developmental
avenues to consider while studying:
Internships and volunteer
programs – these provide great work experience and also indicate how your able
to balance school and work
Involvement in SRC and campus
societies – these will expose you to how the working world is like through the
various seminar/events the society organizes. You can pick a society which is
both social and purposeful; for example, being part of the student’s law
society as a law student is rudimentary.
Part-time work: retail
Campus work: tutoring/ radio/newspaper/
IT services – working on campus is great because you would have access to it
easily. There are various services provided by the varsity/college to students
which need student to work in them. For example; the IT department helps
students with issue they have with their own laptops; these services
administered by “student employees”.
See your qualification as the bare minimum
requirement to getting a job and work towards making your CV stand out from the
rest of the applicants’.
I unfortunately did not have the foresight
while I was still in varsity regarding all of this. Do not buy into the dream
that all you need is a qualification and for that reason, finding a job will be
easy; because a rude awakening awaits. By the time I realised the importance of
truly moulding my career while studying, I was halfway through my second year
and only had about a year and a half to try and up my game. Had I known the
importance of this from orientation week in 1st year, I would’ve
been more proactive about giving myself a competitive advantage from the onset.
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